I see it like this, Nothing can make you a bad momma so long as you love your own. We can still love all God's creatures because they are just that but it's kind of like kids it depends upon who raises them. I had a dog for the first year of her life and my mom had the sister. When I got married we moved into an apartment and Chyna was too big to go with me so she moved to Grandma's house. I love my dog still but goodness she has bad manners now. But my mom lives alone and treats both Chyna and her sister as if they layed golden eggs. It drives me crazy, but Mom does not seem to mind. It does not make you a bad person, I think it show's that you really care.