No, abbersmom, not everyone! I'm david p and I'm from Pittsburgh, Pa. I'm a cat butler to Nikki, a 4 y.o. tuxedo kitty, and Daisy a 2 y.o. tortoiseshell kitty. I think at 57 I'm the oldest guy on PT! I'm a golf course groundskeeper. Nikki is right now nestled in the crook of my arm!