Hello,

I don't know why your message bothered me so much but it did.
I try to feel better and your post just set me back

My cat was 18 years old ,..after 18 years I know the difference betwen meowing because of lonliness and sickness...after 18 years with Tiger I know the difference between crapping outside the box to fecel matter dripping because he can't help it...

I am sure you didn't mean to make me feel worse than I do....But I posted here to feel better....

Have you loved a cat for 18 years...longer than my kids....
It was a chice out of LOVE

kelly