Oh sweetie, I am sorry to hear about what happened.. * hugs * I know you have it in you, it just takes a matter of time to realize you have it in you and you will be able to stand up to her. You can do it. Just go "Hey, no, I work for this money, and I earn it. I have been helping you out the entire time, but it's time, I'm tired of it, Mom, I'm done." and just walk out..