Diane,

Boy, what a dilemma. Have you taken her to the vet to rule out any medical problem??

Cats are creatures of habit and do not like change. I think moving and bringing a new baby into the house overwhelmed her. Peeing and pooping outside the litterbox is her way of telling you she's not happy. Unfortunately, since she's done it 3 times, the odor is there.

When you brought your baby home, did you let her sniff the kid and just kind of check her out???

I live in Michigan and would be more than happy to take her and try to rehome her. Do you know if she gets along with other cats???? I have a cage I can put her in in my spare room till she gets used to her roommate, a stray 3 year old Meezer. I'll PM you with my phone number. Give me a call so we can talk. Try to hang in there till a solution can be found, okay??

Donna