Originally posted by K9soul
and to be honest if my Mom were to show up (I see her perhaps once a year), and pulled out a cigar while in my house, I would not say anything.
When I had my own place, my dad always asked if it was ok to smoke. I think the respect thing goes both ways, even if he is older and my father, he still knows it's my home. I'm not going to give him crap about smoking inside his home, but, he knows how I feel about smoking in general. And, I'm lucky that he doesn't make me ask him not to smoke in my home. And, yeah, right now, I live with them. So, their rules apply.