Kari, I apologize. I absolutely, in no way, was trying to imply that you are impolite at all and I'm sorry if it read that way. It's different viewpoints on the subject that's all. I was raised differently and very "old school" I guess you could say.
And about the friends issue, I do agree with you. I also could not have certain pets as I am kind of scared of some of them...LOL!! BUT, I also could not be "close" friends with someone who did not understand my love for my dog and the place he holds in my life. I would have nothing to talk to them about. Plain and simple. I ahve tons of acquaitances that don't like pets or don't have pets or laugh at my stories with Duncan and get a kick out of me but as a confidante and close friend...they would miss the point of ME entirely.
You are absolutely right about accepting others viewpoints and I do. I agree with you that my post sounded a little closed minded although I am not that type of a person at all. People can do what they please and I am not here to judge anyone...
Thanks for being understanding and expressing yourself.