I'm sure Tobey will get the hang of things after a while. And yes that includes jumping on the bed to cuddle when dad's not around. lol lol

Thats what my dogs did when I was with my ex, he did not allow them on the bed.
Good thing I got a great man now, he could care less. But since my ex they are still semi-trained to kind of stay off the bed which is actually great. They only et on the bed now if only one of us is on it or no one is on it or if we tell them to jump up. They haven't even tried to jump up when we are both sleeping.