Candy:
I also think that, after you see the pup in his home, you may want to take him with you if you believe that he's not getting enough food or attention.
Not everybody has a sweet daugther like Logan's Helen. Two boys of that age may be too involved with sports or other school activities and not willing to spend enough time with the dog. Nothing can make a Golden more neurotic than the lack of human companionship On the other hand, from everything I've learned volunteering for YGRR, they are so incredibly responsive to a change of environment and a loving home.
I'm sure you'll do what is best for the puppy. Good luck and keep us informed.