I have an extra vertabrae (sp?) in my spine - as did my Mom and Grandmom. Sometimes it just "goes out" and pinches. Hurts when you're asleep, hurts when you're awake. My heart goes out for both of you. Sure hope he can get some relaxer type of thing. Poor guy and poor you. What do "they" always say? "This too shall pass". Doesn't really help when you are flat on your back. I'm sooo sorry to hear this. You are a wonderful friend and I sure hope you guys are "up and running" soon.
Laurie