mmm ok guys, maybe I sounded like I expected too much but if I was, I wouldn't be surprised with responses I got in "Fun Colorful Crayola" but I was and you can go in there and see how happy(ier) I was. don't everybody can have a good feeling?

par...magic number? mmmm, good question..I don't think I have one. isn't a good correspondence is all I (and most of us) want/need? some people can stand just being one-sided and post everything and gets nothing back. see, just like you, par, you wouldn't have a great obsession/butt contest if you get less than five and wouldn't be as great/fun as 10..20..30 voters. these 10s I get, probably has a half of my posts, thanking them.[/color]

posted by parnone
I reply when something grabs me and I have something to say. I can't do it any other way or I know I'll start feeling like it's a chore and won't post at all.
Par...
perfectly commented. this is the reason why I am trying my best (when I have time) and want to support, reinforce everyone here, especially newcomers as much as I could. because what it seems, here, for the most people who threaded just words with no pictures (which can be so boring for some) after some people didn't respect their pictures, used them without asking, or some very blurried photos, or most with red-eyees, not speaking english very well, or is not wise as the others or doesn't like/judge her/him for some reason tend to get very low replies. so I felt bad for them, most of the time, these threads wouldn't interest much of people. a lot people needed to be motivated by others, ya know. make a confess!!

honestly, "..threads being pushed back in few pages.." is full of...(zips). yes, it's true some of you have missed, that's okay but look at this site, over thousands of members...pleeenty. have you seen or thought of that a few threads that has the same numbers of viewers but has more posts than the one that gets zero post? that really bothers me. I don't think that's always the reason, also why would they want to bump twice in a row?

being in their shoes is all I'm saying...(if you'd like!)