We have a question...do we visit him?
Why not? So, he messed up... and he messed up bad... we all do! Hopefully he will realise his mistakes before it's too late. We shall pray that he will wake up, and realise how lucky he is! Otherwise he might loose all that's important to him... you, your mom and his girlfriend... let us know how it goes!

We shall keep you and your brother in our thoughts! Best wishes and a great big hug to you!