What I try to do is get both sides of the story first. Now, please don't take this the wrong way, because it's not itended to make anyone mad.

But, are you sure this kid isn't telling you PART of the story?? I mean, maybe the father told him if he didn't shape up, he can't live there anymore, then finally followed-thru with the actual promise ( I don't like to use the word threat).

I'm also not saying the father was right either. But you need to get all the facts from EVERYONE first.

Good luck! I certainly wouldn't want to be in that type of situation.