Yes I'd have to say I would get him, but I live in the country and feel it's a little safer. Do you live around a busy streets or a neighbor hood that's is not too safe for a cat to run free? If you do, it would be harder for me to say yes. Death at the shelter or death by car or something else..... maybe? Hmmm, thats a hard choice to make, at least for me.

If you can cage him, big enough that he's not too unhappy and can spend time with him, to make him feel safe and loved, then yeah, get him. Just don't set him free, right away in hopes that he will stay around......he wont.

Hopefull after sometime, husband will fall in love and then you have a keeper.