I personally don't think it is good to make them eat on the same plate. Mine have so many problems with steal each others food and one over eats and throws up so it is just a mess. Expecially since I'm not there on weekends. I'd take them with me but that would stress them out. I don't think not feeding her would be good either BUT one idea is to combine the two. In the daylight when she comes to you put some form of can or treat food out for her just inside the door. That way she may need to come in a few feet and maybe even leave the door open so she knows she will be able to leave right after she eats. And I'm sure Tiki will want some too so you can feed him where he normally eats the same stuff. Maybe keep moving the treat plate for Meko a foot or so each day inside the house always leaving the door open. Then maybe you can switch it to her normal food or just add some in slowly till it is most if not all her own food. But I would not force them to eat together or even close to each other. Maybe just get her used to her bowl being just inside the door so she can eat inside but retreat outside when she wants. Is she enclosed outside or does she roam free??? Debbie