Meka and Max did NOT hit it off at all. I got Max in February and it is just now that he doesn't have scratch marks on his nose from her. They are finally rubbing on each other and smelling butts more. They do not sleep together yet and still fight and growl and hiss and swatt but they are so much better - they are finally learning how to play too. That is so good to watch as both were wild I don't think they really knew how to play at all. I think they don't know how to play with each other either but there has been a lot of improvement. It has been 4 months. So my point is as long as no one is hurt physically please give them a lot more time to come around on their own.. From what I gather on this board they may never be best friends but they will (hopefully) learn to talerate each other in the same house... Debbie