Originally posted by Cataholic
Why can't you just ask him to do something you are interested in doing? It doesn't have to be a D-A-T-E. Just two people hanging out. I think it would be fun to get a group of people together and go canoeing. Something outside, group'ish, fun, and a place to talk with no real pressures....stuff like that.

I am going to tell you to NOT push it forward. There might be a reason...maybe he is just waiting for the right moment, when he feels sure?
Right now, all I am doing is just.. hanging out with him. I left a message asking him if he wanted to go to the beach with me sometime this week, because it is pretty hot/warm outside this week. That's just something simple, not a date, just a hanging out sort of thing.