Okay, I have learned yet ANOTHER lesson about men!!! There REALLY is a reason a guy like the one I just met doesn't have a chance with me!!! They turn psychotic!!!
I think I just got a taste of medicine in my mouth on this one ladies!!! After one date this guy now wants to move in with me!!! Claims because I let him stay once that he should be allowed to come over more!?
He's been living with his parents and taking care of his mother with alzheimer's. This sounded sweet and caring. However, he had a drinking problem and no job. I could understand his situation would make him want to drink... I overlooked some of this because he had other good qualities. (He did my dishes okay!?)
Now the guy has totally freaked out. I had plans to go out with my friends at a local bar during the weekend. I told him straight out about it. He couldn't afford to go. So I come home the first night to 2 answering machine messages, 4 missed calls on my cell phone, and a note on my trash can... then he calls me 10 minutes after I got home to ask if I had "hooked up" with somebody!
The next day he came over with flowers and an apology for his behavior.
So that night no phone calls. However, the next morning he calls me at 7:30 AM!!! To give me a "hard time" for being out so late. Demanded to know what time I got home!!! Then later in the afternoon he decides he needs to tell his father off and move in with me for 2 days on my couch!!! Can the words "NO WAY!!!" come out of my mouth any faster?
Man, just when I think I have hit bottom with guys, I find yet another bottom feeder!!! So please do NOT tell me that the "Right one" will come along when I least "Expect it". I've given more chances than the Price of Right on winning a prize!!! I've been date raped, imprisoned, hit, called vicious names, money taken, cheated on, lied to, stalked numerous times, grabbed inapropriately, given colds, and had to completely start my life over again due to bad relationships with men. I believe I am allowed to be okay with being single and not ashamed of it. I own my singleness now. It is now the fear of togetherness with someone that I fear.