I'm the only "dog person" who posted an opinion on colour, so I could only assume that it was somewhat towards me..If you're tired of all that, why are you getting angry in this thread about a cat colour? I was never "putting you in your place." I was just telling her what her cat was -- you did the exact same thing, as did a bunch of other people. So I happened to say she was a dilute tortoishell and white after you were angry at KBlaix has nothing to do with anything -- I wouldn't change my mind and suddenly say she's a calico just to spare your feelings, as I don't believe she IS a calico. I was just saying what I thought was true and in no way was I thinking about what took place the very few posts ahead of me. The thread was about the breed/colour of her cat, I told her what I best believed is the colour of her cat, as was asked, and I'm sorry that you think my post had something to do with you, but the thread isn't about you, it's about the cat, and my post WAS about the cat. If you are sad or angry about something else, please don't take out on the "dogpack" as you like to call them, with irrelevant topics. Start a new thread or talk tell some people how you've been feeling. I rarely come to the cat side because I feel like I don't fit in, and when I get someone that seems angry at me, it really hurts my feelings and makes me not want to come back, so sorry if I sound harsh or upset. And I'm sorry you are having a hard time.