I think that by you switching his vest/tie without him knowing will cause more harm...I think he'll be immature and that may ruin his gf's time.

I would call the store and switch it back.

He has to learn someday that he needs to dress appropirately. If he can't respect his gf enough to do this SMALL thing for her, he has some growing up to do.

The fact he wasn't to wear Mickey Mouse stuff really says a lot. Sounds like he needs some more life lessons...but ones he needs to learn the hard way.

Gosh, I hope that wasn't harsh, Kim.

I bet its so hard being a parent. I'm such a control freak that this would bother the crap out of me too!!!

Hugs,
Kelly