Jen, really, must I come and slap you on the back of the head? How could this be your fault? I too would have gone on the assumption that she would come out for food, water, a good stretch at some point during the day. Never would it occur to me that she exclusively sought refuse under the couch and never ventured out.

Now repeat after me: How could I have known? I am NOT a bad foster mom! I am a GOOD foster mom! If I don't stop kicking myself, catnapper will come up here and kick me for real!

{{{HUGS}}} Jen. It was one of those things where you had no way of knowing. She didn't do this the last time you had her, so why would you think that she would do it this time?