Oh Val I'm sorry your feeling bad about your friends. I do know how it is sometimes, my closest friend, that I have had for years, we have gone long periods of time not talking or seeing each other. There was a time we went over a year, without seeing or talking to each other, but when something happened to me, she was right there, for me, as soon as I called. As she told me, life gets so busy, that sometime close friends get set aside because she knows no matter what, I will always be there, that what real friendship is about.

Maybe something is going on in their life right now, thats just keeping them busy, away or maybe just mad at the world type thing and it has nothing to do with you. I know I have gotten like that and ignored people.

Have you asked them what up? If it is something, that they think you might have done etc., just ask, clear the air, could all just be a misunderstanding of some sort. Also I don't know these friends, but in the past, I have had some friends that are just sedative, to everything, is it possible they are? Sometimes we just have to learn to deal with our friends faults and understand, this is how they are.

Just give it time, Your a good person, we know that, and I know your friends know it too, it will pass, I'm sure

Hey, you know if you ever get really down, I'm a phone call away. I know I'm not them, but I'll be there if you need. Maybe we can meet up again, do lunch, shopping and just talk. You vent, I'll listen.