lol I always thought my spelling and grammer were awful, then I read "a complicated kindness" an award winning novel...the grammer is so bad I could hardly understand what was going it, like in a single sentance she would go from present to past, no puncuation at all, I was so confused, here is an example of the kind of thing I mean "as I was walking around the block I was a little girl talking to my mother in the living room" like, huh? it is so hard to read a book like that, I was constantly stuck on differnt parts trying to figer out what the heck they were trying to say. and that book has won AWARDS?!