please allow some for adjustment to the new kitty. my girl abby ruled the roost here for almost a year..then buddy came along. she absolutley hated him., and was very,very mean to him for almost two weeks straight.then one day she got over herself..and strolled over to buddy and touched her nose to his nose and now they are great friends....as you can tell (he was just a baby here) see they can become best friends, it just takes some time.