Meka and Max have been together now over 3 months and still fight when we are around but have noticed when we come home they are both lying by the door real close to each other and they walk away from the door when we come in and they walk together occassionally rubbing up against each other but when we are there forget it!!! Unfortunately Max won't fight back - probably because I got real upset one time I came home and Meka had a bad gash between her eyes. But now Max has a bunch between the eyes and meka doesn't. So yesterday he walloped her good - she terrorizes him - and I just looked at him and said good boy.. We'll see but I think it will take 3-6 more months before I might get lucky enough for them to snuggle. I'm still hoping... Maybe a third cat would help???? If my hubby heard that he'd freak!!! hahahahaha Debbie