they should charge her for the two false reports she gave, she did NOthing criminal till she called 911 and talked to the cops and reported something false.

as for the other things/suggestions you can't make her do that stuff but if I were her parents I'd sure as heck give her hell for not leaving a note or calling them, and if I were the groom her ass would be kicked to the curb...

imagine what ELSE she'd react this way about!