Ok yes I would charge her for the resources used in finding her. I think she chose a horrible way to get out of being married. But I also think there is some reason behind her running away that had nothing to do with getting attention and if not for the lying about being abducted she did nothing illegal anyway. I thnk that we give too much attentin to these cases so there are going to be copycat cases and eventually it will lead to an actual happening that we ignore.