OK, I can understand if she gets cold feet and wants to be by herself for a bit.

the rest I don't get.

She goes far far away, not telling ANYONE, not leaving a note, not leaving a voice mail, not emailing, nothing. Nothing to say she needs some time alone.

She cuts her hair (so she isn't recognized from the missing persons reports pictures).

She calls 911 to say she's been kidnapped (false report).

She talks to police and FBI about her abduction (another false report).

Frankly, she needs to be charged. Though they say now they won't press charges, that may (and I HOPE WILL) change.

The groom needs to rip that ring off her finger and tell her to shove her lies somewhere the sun don't shine and walk away instead of being excited to see her again.

And I do think the least she could do is pay back all that money for the effort to find her, even though she didn't break any rules getting cold feet, she should be responsible for everything after she called someone to say she was abducted. The best she could do is have the reward money pay the people who went through the effort to find her.