When I first got Oscar he was the same way. We would need to pick up the dryer and pull him out. Everyday I would get him out and wrap him in a towel or blanket of some type and I would sit and hold him talking and loving on him. After about six months of this he finally started to come out and jump in my my lap and didn't hide anymore. He now is my lap buddy whenever I sit down to watch tv or read. Be patience and let the furbaby know you care and love him.