Hi Audrey. I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this very difficult decision. I have been there myself and it was one of the most difficult decisions I've ever had to make. The only advice I can give you is this. It is a ver personal one, one which should be made after searching deep into your heart, talking with your family and with your vet. It is often said that "you will know" when it's time. Yes, the thinking side of you may know, but often your heart pulls you in another direction. I have a very close relationship with my vet, and it is at times like this that I speak with him, heart to heart, and ask his advice. It is a very difficult decision to make alone. Just remember that whenever that time comes, it will be a decision made out of the deepest love, as painful as it is. I have come to love Rufus and Jo so, from your many posts and pics. of them. I am so sad I missed his most recent pics. So many new Pet Talkers and daily posts, that sometimes important ones get missed. For me, this was one of them. Please forgive me. I'm posting the link to the thread of Rufus' younger year photos. Such a beautiful dog. I will be thinking of you and Rufus and I hope you know you have my love and support. Please hug Rufus for me and give him a very, very soft kiss right on the side of his nose. Love, Sandra

Rufus as a youngster can be seen at:

http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthre...&threadid=9355