Divorce is no fun..been there done that after being married for 16 years. Its tough on every one involved. Even tho I was the one who initiated the divorce and am very happily married now for almost 6 years, it really took a tole on my whole family. My parents stated "It felt like a death in the family" because they loved my ex. Holidays are not the same..Kids have to go here and there...we can't hardly all be at the same place at the same time. And altho no one broke up our marriage...I remarried less than a year later, so all were convinced Brad broke our marriage up..(my hubby now) and to this day I am sure they all still do, so there is some resentment towards him, too. He has always felt like an outsider.

Probably more info than you wanted..but just giving my experience.
I hope the best for you...