I adpoted Kirby when he was 2 an half years old. he adjusted pretty fast to 3 complete strangers. plus new yard and house. then my brother moved back in and he had to adjust to 4 strangers.

i agree,, i think she would do fine if you were to take her with you.

i dont think its selfish at all. a lot of people just 'dump' their pets off on the parents to go to college or whatever. i think its great that you want to take her with you,, and also concidering the dogs feelings on the issue.