i want to the little flap peirced(i know some of you have it peirced,i dont know what its called ),do you know if Claires or Merle norman will peirce it there?Or do i have to go to an actual tattoo/peircing place?
Even if they will do it, PLEASE don't get it done there. That's just asking for an infection. The reason that your cartilage is infected is because odds are they did the peircing with gun (I'm guessing). The peircing jewlery isn't really sharp enough, so what happened is that your cartlilage is just getting pushed aside, so now it's having a hard time healing because there is no place for that cartilage to go. If you had done it at a peircing shop they would have used a hollow needle which would have removed a tiny peice of it allowing room for the peircing so that it could heal.

If you decide to get a tragus peircing and have it done with a gun like at Claire's the problem will be even worse since that area is a bit thicker.