My reaction to the title was...

"NNNOOOOOOOOOooooooooooo" (with a sad tone of voice)

The decision to rehome is probably the HEARDEST thing any one ever has to do (even harder than euthanizing for illness). I cannot express how sorry I am for you.

I'd foster that boy in a heartbeat if you weren't thousands of miles away.

{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}