Kari, just one more thing. It sometimes isn't neccessary to over analyze everything. One of the joys in a relationship is discovering things together. If you guys truly love each other, then when a situation arises, it will be worked out. A Q & A brief at the start is not totally needed. Deep down you know he is a good person, and you would know that he will always talk to you, support you, and love you.
Sometimes that's all that's needed.