For every chapter of your life that ends, a new one begins. You have the means and skills to create a better and happier chapter than the last one. Sometimes, it is just better to start a new chapter than to keep on with the old one that is not working for you..

The Mr. Ex and I have been divorced for over 20 years and we agreed on a pleasent one because of the kids and I have to tell you, we have made FAR better friends than we did man and wife. He was not a bad person and neither was I, we just outgrew each other and we are still friends today. He calls me, I call him and we keep in touch... If one of us is in need, all the other has to do is ask. We love one another as friends.

Life is to short for negative things or toxic people and I am sure you have learned, stress can be a factor in your health.

I am happy for you and I am thrilled at all there is out there for you to find and discover in your new life. Just remember "LET GO, LET GOD!" I hope you enjoy your new life as much as I did mine when I got my divorce and find all the wonder and joy out there that I found... Good friends, good times, great life!

(Not to be treating divorce lightly, it does hurt when it ends, no matter what the reasons are)

Good Luck with your new life!