I'm sorry that your marriage didn't work out, but I know that you really tried to make it work. You're right, sometimes things just aren't meant to be, and you need to do what's right for you and him. I'm glad you posted this, because it's just one of many steps ahead. I'm glad that both you and he have been agreeable with each other during the divorce and that the kitties will all be in good hands.
You know that I'm here for you too
**hugs**
Karen