Hello Im Dusty, and I was reading this post, and wow its quick with drawing attention. I was reading everything from Accord and you ladies. And I most of agree with everything you ladies are saying.
Yes the ladies are trying to help Accord understand what BYB means. And yes I do understand that of course. And I see you ladies aren't showing quite enough encouragements for Accord. I dont see anything positive in there, saying that she did her job by getting the puppies checked and getting their first shots.
So Accord Congrandulations for getting their check ups and their shots. Thats good news. And Im glad they have a negative respnose to the viruses. So thats excellent news.
Also ladies, I dont think that was polite to say that you would say "If I live close to you, I will report you" naughty ladies, thats not nice to say. Say something that would be a little better then that. I think Accord is probably reading this but won't reply. Try to encourage her. I see why she's defensive is because you ladies are some what scaring her and sort of puting her down after all she was able to do. Please try not to put her down for those mistakes she made, I make mistakes too, and Im sure you girls do too. No one is perfect. I think you girls maybe have overwhelmed her with anxiety and pressure with her and the puppies. You girls should be thankful that she took them, feed them, love them, get their shots on time. I know Accord from another forum but I can't say it. She has told me some about it, and She told me that the mommy of those puppies abandoned them and she worked hard to save them. One of them almost died and she saved it. So please make her feel better. She feels insecured cause she doesn't have a lot of friends. So please try to have a gentle heart and help her and encourage her ok? I also think you ladies MIGHT be reading between the lines. Please dont think Im taking her side, Im not taking the ladies' side as well. Im just pointing out what you laidies have proven, and what Accord has tried to do. So Im not taking both sides. But did you read her recent post? That she is not going to breed the puppies? Did you ladies read that her dog didn't die in her hands for something she tried to save with the skills she have? Do you ladies know that it was not her fault that she thought that her puppy had her first shots? <dont blame her for not knowing it-she thought she knew, but felt the seller was full of shit> (Forgive me for my bad language, ::Tells myself bad boy:: Accord felt she knew that her puppy had the shots. But please dont try to blame her for not knowing that her puppy had no update shots. Sometimes the seller would lie just to get rid of them quicker. Again, remember, they thought their puppy had their first shot before they were claimed. Please try to understand that ok? So Im pretty sure Accord is fighting with her mom to get papers and information on her puppy's health.
Accord, Im pretty sure you rather hear this from a guy, right? I know the ladies aren't trying to be mean or to jump on you, you know that they are trying to help, but yes I agree how you feel that if they were being a little uptense about the "If I live close to you I will report you" I think they were trying to scare you. So dont worry. I know you can take care of them. Dont give up. Since you are working and helping your friends out. Encouraging THEM to hopefully spay/neuter their puppies. I have a good feeling that you wont breed your puppies... Mmm.. I wonder if you have another one for sale? Ill help pay to spay/neuter it for you. To relieve some stress. I hope you have one! I really want a boy. Its a guy thing. Sorry. Do you know what shots they have up to date? When is their next shot due? How much?
Ok girls are we going to be able to take care of this? Are we going to be a team to help Accord and encourage her? Are we going to stop blaming each other? Are we going to help Accord pull this through? Are we a team?
Ladies, encourage Accord to help get through the day.
Accord, please accept their encouragement and do what you can do to achieve this Puppy Goal. Everyone can do it, I know you can. Be strong. Be yourself and make it happen. Hope to see you on the Forum that we talked from.
Take care of those sweet rascals for me. If you have one for sale, let me know and I can buy it, help get it neutered/spayed, and their next shots. Im here for you since you are a sweet girl. And you done everything you could. Be positive and strong. Let the ladies give you advice, dont turn them down, open up to them please? Let them be a friend to you, like you are with me.
Love you Accord

Dusty

PS: Have Faith OK?