I don't mind facial piercings, but they can be overdone.

A simple nose piercing like you have looks cool (I personally wouldn't do it, but I've had my tongue pierced) and just might HELP your husbands job showing that they can be inclusive to diverse people.

As for clicking with the tongue ring, I used to do that a lot, then someone mentioned about wearing the enamel off of my teeth by playing with it like that so I stopped. Had that tongue ring for about two years till the novelty wore off.