I voted no also. A big part of that is I've let men affect how I feel about myself my whole life. I'm to a point now that I don't care about them. The majority of men are so shallow and superficial. No matter how they look, they expect a skinny model type woman for themselves. So, the next time I lose weight, it will be for me and no one else. Besides, no man can fill Duke's shoes, so to speak. Has anyone else had this negative experience with men?