Thanks for the help. We have started using the crate again. She is doing much better...started out slow and left her 3-4 times each day during the weekend for 1-2 hours or more, so we will see how she does today while I am at work this morning and go home for lunch to take her out. Potty wise she can go about5 hours, so hopefully she get the hang of it. I guess she will sooner or later!!
She seems so much better this week and more calm.
Thanks again for your responses.