Well I was going to ask YOU...the expert this. I currently work 2 jobs and I don't get as much time as I would like with them but I try hard to lay on the floor with them and play whenever I can. I only have one more week at my second job so I will be able to come home and spend more time and hoefully she will be more receptive. I want to just pick her up and let her deal with it but she fights so bad to get away that I feel bad when I do it. They just turned 6 months and I still think they are "trainable" to be loved. What do you think?