Yes, sometimes to me it is just a bit puzzling how they turn out. None of kitties were born under our roof and two are strays. All three are lap cats and even, Trey, who is cranky with the other cats loves to do laps. It is always there time though and we can't push it. Thing is it is my lap they want and not hubby's. He does pet them a lot, feed them sometimes, clean up after them, and loves them to pieces, but they never jump on his lap.