Thanks for the input....

All 3 of mine are so laid back and lovey dovey... but we held them a lot when we first got them (as much as they'd let us) and still do.

This morning all 3 wanted to be held at once normally Pepper and Milo like to be held (and will cry if you dont) first thing in the morning and when I first walk in the door. Max likes to be held more at night, around bedtime... once in a while he likes it other times and normally doesnt protest if you pick him up....