Originally posted by Lachesis
Hmmmm interesting! Thanks for your feedback. Guess I was blind... I thought you could smotherl a cat w/cuddles and love LOL and eventually make them want it. I guess not

No, you can't do that. they are just the way they are. my husband TRIED to do that with my 2 cats for quite awhile, and it kinda ended up working just the opposite of what he wanted.
He has finally learned to let them come to him, and they do just that!


Also, I think that kittens and young cats are not going to be as cuddley, at least mine is not. he is way to busy playing and getting into mischief......... my other boy is on the other hand a big lover-boy