I think you should be a little more happy that your family cares and wants everyone to know. When I got pregnant, No one knew because my mother kicked me out of the house! Shortly after that I miscarried and my fiance at the time left me to rott away in America. I spent just under a year homeless in this country. Haven't spoken to my ex since then, and I didn't have a relationship with my mom until I moved in with my now fiance, Leslie. My mom and I have an OK relationship, we don't talk about the past. and there will certainly be no children in my future, at all.