Thank you Pam, I put my two cents in early but then decided to drop out because I didn't want my own feelings to reflect on anyone elses' opinions of me, or of me on them. I dearly love and respect those of yours, Logans, Donnas' and all - that may differ in several respects.. but we still can be dear friends and have much in common. That is what makes us a bit more mature about the whole matter I hope. I didn't want those feelings to change our relationships. I think that this board can be helpful and knowledgeable for all of us as long as we maintain our dignity and respect. I just knew, Pam, that Badger and Ripley probably P.M.'ed each other and said... let it be Sometimes I think our lifemate pets are wiser than we are. Excuse me but Badger is barking at me right now and I must see to him