I had to wait and think about my answer before I did. I'm sorry for this after you were so excited for the coming of Jenna. Could you just tell AMy Beth she should chareish every minute with Jenna. She got to have her baby. My daughter was pegnat the same time as her (in fact Lee should have been born on the 31st of this month.) I only got to see my grand son in the bottom of a speciman cup after he was born at 14 weeks. She and you both get to hold your girl. It hurts so much to hear these things when you have such a joy . Shake some sense in to Amy Beth she has such a gift , she should never take it for granted. My daughter and her husband would give anything to have their son to hold.