Oh Kim, I am so sorry that you are having to go through this.
It just isn't fair.
I know you love your daughter, but I think it is about time she grew up and took on her own responsibility. I thought that once she became a mother, that she would change. I'm sad to hear that she hasn't.

It's easy to say, adopt Jenna, but you have to consider your health problems. You raised your own babies, now it's time to enjoy being a Grammy, not also being a mom again too.

This is just my opinion and I know that you would never turn your back on your daughter or your grand-daughter for that matter.

Your well-being matters too.

((((((HUGS))))))