The first thing I said to myself when I read your post was, "C'mon Candy - you know EXACTLY what is happening - you just don't want to believe it!"
So forgive me for smiling at your response - it is hard when our emotional ties get into the mix. Believe me there has been more than one ocassion when I have been responsible for a group of dogs and have resisted the pack order because of my emotional ties. It is human nature and it is not easy to get over.

It's so funny that I knew that you knew what was happening and I also know exactly how you feel - you will get used to it and I assure you that the bond between you and Dixie is not less because her status has changed with Dusty.
I know that you know that I know that you are just brill - keep me posted!!